CELEBRATE YO LIFE SON

I think we’ve all been so wrapped in our hustle- work, changes and venturing to better our future selves. But when was the last time you went out and just had a good time?


Go out and get crazy | Carry a lamp on the subway all the way home | Take a trip to view hot motorcycles and hotter men | Dance till your dead | Drink enough to cause binge eating | Get fancy with some of your greatest friends | Play with fruit baskets | Dance with hot gay men | Take the view in | Look around you more and read | Take a smoke break | Dress up as someone other than yourself | Take self-timer photos in the grocery store at 4AM | Get dressed up and feel sexy | Put your heels on and get jiggy | Pose like a bat

The importance of this post is really to go out and enjoy life. It’s happening now, right this second. The excuses need to stop- “I’m tired, I’m broke, I’m staying in tonight, I’m over going out”. You don’t have to go into the club and go hard. But you should go out and see. Have friends around for a glass of wine and some awesome food. Love what your life is and stop focusing on what’s wrong in it.

Since I’ve moved to New York, I’ve tried to go out and have a good time. Yet the moment I wake up, all I think about is the money I’ve spent or the time I could of spent working on a project or furthering progress on work, the blog or anything else having to do with furthering my career. Yea, of course, we all know I moved here to hustle my ass off and make something of myself. But what is it without good wine, good friends and good music? I’m done with my excuses- moments like the ones above should happen more often than they do.

So go out, try new wines and make new friends. It’s fun. Or so I’m learning.

 

  • http://www.riamichelle.com Ria Michelle

    Same boat. Always hustling. The last couple times I’ve gone out just for fun I’m like well I could have been doing…I need to let go and just get loose like the old days. 

    • http://www.profreshstyle.com Profresh Style

      Let loose mama! Do it before work consumes you. 

  • Anonymous

    You are sooo right!!  I’m always, always, always working and hustlin and some days I physcially need to chill out and have fun.  We need to let our brains have fun sometimes and your pictures reminded me that I need some more that in my life!

    Live it up girl!

    • http://www.profreshstyle.com Profresh Style

      Girl, do it. Take at least a night where you zone out and not think about how you can do better, be better, etc. Just love life and embrace it. Hope you do that this weekend! 

  • nushka

    This post perfectly coincides with my trip to New York- feeling so inspired!

  • http://www.styleactivist.com erika sheffer

    Ahhh you’re speaking to my heart right now. I am so caught up in work and getting my hustle on. I need to have a total let loose weekend or just a vacation. To enjoy life and de-stress. I need wine and good friends bad right now.

    This is why we are friends. You are gorg. xo

  • sarah

    really great series of pictures. i really love your blog! so glad i found you :)

    http://vanillachic.wordpress.com/
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  • Tina

    Right on!
    Truly inspiring. I admire that you don’t let being a “grown up” stop you from living your life to the fullest. It’s a hard balance!
    Following your blog as of… now.
    :)
    - Tina